Shirley's Recommendations for Equipment for the Starter Kitchen

Most important tip: Never pay full-price retail! (More on sources of equipment later)

Knives

1 chef's knife, 8" -- once you get used to it, you will use it for just about everything
1 paring knife, 3"
1 serrated bread knife, 10"
1 sharpening steel, 10" -- if you get into the habit of using this regularly, you will be glad you did
1 knife block or other knife storage/protection

2 cutting boards, polypropelene, large enough to be useful, but small enough to fit in your dishwasher

Pots & Pans

3 saucepans, 1 quart, 2 quart & 3 quart., with lids
multi-use "stock" pot, 11 - 12 quart (not smaller no matter what the salesperson tells you) with a pasta insert and steamer insert
2 frypans, 10" and 12" OR 8" and 10", OR a 10" frypan and 3 quart saute pan (depending on what you like to cook)
1 quart or 2 quart saucier (optional but really nice)
1 12" chef's  pan with lid -- looks like a civilized wok OR 1 14" wok with lid
1 Dutch oven, 4 1/2 - 6 quarts
1 baking dish 13" x 9" x 2"
1 roasting pan, 16" x 12" x 5"
1 glass casserole dish (microwaveable)  -- 2 1/2 - 3 quarts, with lid
1 pressure cooker, 7 1/2 - 8 quart -- extremely useful and no longer scary to use

Utensils

Nested stainless steel mixing bowls, the more the merrier, at least 4 (wide may be easier to store than deep, or vice versa)
1 set measuring spoons
1 set dry measuring cups, stainless steel
1 set liquid measuring cups, glass (good for in microwave) or plastic (angled)
1 vegetable peeler
1 instant read thermometer
1 oven thermometer
1 refrigerator/freezer thermometer
1 turner, solid
1 turner, slotted
2 stirring spoons, wood or plastic, one solid, one slotted
2 heat-resistant silicone spatulas, one flat the other curved ("spoonula")
1 soup ladle, 4 ounces
1 whisk 10  - 12" long, (not the ones with the skinny wire handles)
1 potato masher
1 pair 12" non-stick tongs, locking
1 funnel
1 corkscrew with integrated foil cutter and bottle opener
1 rasp or citrus grater
1 can opener
1 kitchen timer
1 pepper mill
1 garlic press
2 wire mesh strainers, small  & large
1 colander, 5 quart, with base
1 pair kitchen shears
1 box grater
1 ice cream scoop
1 cake tester
1 tape measure
1 rubber jar opener
1 salad spinner, but only if you make a lot of salads
1 bulb baster, if you roast a lot
1 mesh skimmer (optional but very handy)
1 utensil holder, to keep most often used tools out and ready by the stove

Baking Equipment

1 square pan, 9" x 9"
1 rectangular pan, 13" x 9"
2 round cake pans, 9"
1 springform pan, 9"
2 loaf pans, 9 x 5 x 3
1 glass pie plate, 9"
1 muffin tin sheet (for 12 medium size muffins)
2 aluminum half sheet pans, 18" x 13", with racks that fit inside them if you can find them, otherwise
1 - 2 wire racks
1 rolling pin
1 dough rolling board or mat
1 bench scraper
air tight tins for flour & sugar
2 "pastry" brushes, one for butter, oil or dry dusting, the other for savory brushing (of strong ingredients, like garlic)

Small Appliances

1 toaster oven
1 kitchen scale
1 blender
1 food processor if you have the room and will use it, otherwise a mandoline and a blender and a box grater can substitute
1 stand mixer, if you are a baker (otherwise, for making dough and many beating tasks, a food processor would be fine)

Storage containers

A bunch, all sizes, clear

Other

pot holders
dish towels
apron

Some places to buy kitchen stuff online

Home cookware
A Best Kitchen
Baker's Catalogue
Caplan Duval (discounted Le Creuset & china)
Chef's Catalog
Cooking.com
Crate and Barrel
Cutlery and More
Fantes Kitchen Wares Shop
Good Cooks Online (French cookware)
Happy Cookers (Shop on-line or visit store in Hollister CA)
Hollingsworth (butcher block products)
John Boos & Company (butcher block products)
Kitchen Krafts
Professional Cutlery Direct
Sur La Table (expensive but well-stocked)
Williams-Sonoma (expensive)

Restaurant Equipment & Supplies

Central Restaurant Products
Economy Restaurant & Bar Supply
Food Service Direct
Ledyard (Check on-line catalog, then call to order & pickup in Santa Cruz)
Next Day Gourmet (On-line catalog & ordering)
Peerless Restaurant Supplies
Restaurant-Store.com
Sharpknives.com
Superior Products (Order on-line from printed catalog or visit store in San Jose CA)
Wilton (cake decorating supplies)